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Designing for Nervous Systems: What Motherhood Revealed About Delight

Every product decision assumes something about the state of the person on the other side. But what if our users aren’t calm, focused, and ready to engage? What if they’re tired, distracted, overstimulated — mid-transition between one part of their day and the next?

In this talk, I explore how motherhood reshaped the way I think about delight in product design. Through personal stories and practical product examples, I’ll argue that delight isn’t about surprise or surface-level polish — it’s about nervous-system relief.

It’s clarity during uncertainty, steadiness during transitions, and reducing cognitive demand when energy is low.

For product leaders and designers, this session reframes delight as emotional infrastructure — a strategic advantage in an overwhelmed world. Because when people feel regulated, they trust. And when they trust, they stay.

About Tomoko

Tomoko is a product design leader with nearly two decades of experience building and scaling digital products globally. Most recently, she served as a Staff Product Designer at Airbnb in New York, where she led complex, cross-functional initiatives and shaped high-impact experiences used by millions.